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  The Blame Game From the very beginning of human history, blame has been a weapon in relationships. In the book of Genesis, when Adam is confronted by God for eating the forbidden fruit, his response is not ownership but deflection: “It’s the woman You gave me.” Eve follows suit, blaming the serpent. That ancient script is still being rehearsed today in marriages, dating, and even casual connections. The blame game has become the most convenient way to avoid accountability. Blame in Modern Love Fast forward to today, and the language may have changed, but the pattern hasn’t. Couples continue to pass the responsibility back and forth like a hot potato. When love fails, the finger rarely points inward; it almost always points outward. 1. The Bedroom Excuse When women cheat, the justification often sounds like: “He wasn’t satisfying me.” When men stray, the line is flipped: “She wasn’t meeting my needs.” Instead of confronting broken communication, emotional disconnect, or self...

When God created the heavens and the earth, He didn’t rush. He didn’t move from one task to another without reflection. Instead, after each act of creation, Scripture records a simple but profound moment: “And God saw that it was good.” That pause matters. It tells us something about the Creator’s nature, and it offers us a divine pattern for our own lives and work. The Rhythm of Creation From light to land, from sea to sky, from plants to people, God worked with intention. He wasn’t only concerned with the outcome He was invested in the process. Each day followed a rhythm: Vision – He spoke with clarity. Action – He brought forth order from chaos. Reflection -He paused to examine what had been done. Affirmation - He declared, “It is good.” Progress - Only then did He move on to the next act of creation. This rhythm reveals a lesson: quality is not accidental it is cultivated. Why We Struggle With Quality Today In our world, the emphasis often falls on productivity, ...